People often ask me what kind of morals in the women's prison, and how women live there. In the men's lock-downs everything is simple and clear: there are some unspoken laws that everyone follows. Otherwise they will not survive. In a woman’s prison – everyone is for himself. There are no rules and concepts. No older, no respectable, not lowered, there is no authority. The main contingent of female lock-downs out of prison is unrelated to any criminals. Basically all are buried for embezzlement in the trade and for domestic crimes, husband screwed down – she killed him. And all, or almost all, say that they are buried for nothing, and many of them are starting to believe it ...
Another 30% are buried instead of their beloved boyfriends, taking the blame upon them. Notably that the crimes are different from theft to murder. They hope that the beloved one will appreciate it and will be waiting and visiting her as he promised. But I haven’t heard of even a single case, when those beloved ones had visited after the trial’s verdict.
Girls, understood everything, felt angry with themselves and with surrounding world, write surrenders, telling how it was in reality, but as a rule, no one considers these complaints.And no one has not been released. They are buried their sentences, becoming angry and hating all the males. I feel so sorry about them.
In the male prisons if one over sleeps with another, it is a shame for the whole life, the humiliation. They are marginalized, who will be walked over. In a females it is normal. Psychology of women requires to love and to be loved, to care for someone. They have families, have a common household, and wolf each other's girlfriends. All this is accompanied by fights and scandals up to the murder. I have not ever seen that man can so desperately love woman. No one condemns women for cohabiting and does not look awry, and many even envy and flirt with them. There are, of course, those who do not like it, but they are silent. Every land has its laugh law.
Characteristically, the woman who plays a male role behaves accordingly: not engaged in farming, do not wash, cook. She can beat her half, and she endures everything and does not lift a hand, even if she is stronger. In recent years, young girls with short sentences are being engaged in it. In their pairs they do not have "Dad" and "Mom", they are on equal footing. For them, it's just sex.
The most important thing to understand, if you are in prison – you cannot talk intelligent. They will not understand it. A typical example. Once my friends sat in the arbor and talked, I went to them, but there was no place to sit. I turned to a woman sitting next and said: "Take another seat, please." She did not move, did not seem to hear. But when I started to curse and told her to clean up, she jumped and then went silent.
Fortunately, I have gained the experience in prison during my first sentence. Only when you use a sharp tone and clerks to handle, they will listen to and respect. It was wild at first, but then I get used to. Kindness they perceive as a weakness.
Sorry for the unexpected holiday. I'm still here. The circumstances did not allow me to keep my blog. Perhaps it’s too late, but I congratulate all with past holidays. I am happy about being able to start writing again.
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